You're not getting the results you want because you're not willing to change your behavior
What is Self-Control
Self-Control is the ability to control oneself, in particular one's emotions and desires or the expression of them in one's behavior, especially in difficult situations .
Habit 1 of Developing a Growth Mindset- Self Control
You are in control of your own thoughts
Monitoring your thoughts, will bring more stability to yourself
You have command over your reactions and how you deal with difficulties
You can't control every situation, but you can control how you react to a situation
Your attitude when you lose or fail, determines how long it will be before you succeed.
Mastering self-control will help you preside over your choices.
Self-Control will keep you from that urge of going against your goals
It only takes the commitment of one person to change history